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I became more feminine, I would act more sweet, talk less, be less witty or sarcastic and it was crazy how many more guys came flocking to me.It was kind of disheartening though that I had to become this demure thing to attract more guys.I felt like I was compromising myself, and at times not even being myself because I had to bite my tongue so much and watch what I said.I don't want to be a bobblehead airhead girl, but it seems as though that's what guys want.I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
So I started to experiment with how I acted around guys.
Yes, you are LESS ambitious, LESS witty, LESS assertive; but why think of these changes in negative terms?
What about the fact that you've become MORE receptive, or MORE radiant, sweet ER, or MORE beautiful?
Men and women are two halves of a whole: one typically active (male) and one typically passive (female).
How do I attract the men I want without compromising myself?
You only think of behaving in a more feminine manner as "compromising yourself" because you've been conditioned to think of your personal value in purely masculine terms. You are too fixated on the fact that you are being LESS masculine.