Over 40s dating london Nude male live webcam chat free
''You've got to look at yourself as a product," she says, tucking one impeccably smooth leg under the other.
Yet the Radio 4 programme made no reference to the thousands of people for whom dates are like needles in haystacks.
"I want women to feel they're desirable and hot," says Paula, who is 51 but looks younger.
"It's all about giving hope to women who feel they're on the scrap heap." With this in mind, one-to-one sessions are set up in the tea rooms of the capital's top hotels.
If you can't remember when someone last asked you out, it isn't the minefield of how to behave in a restaurant that causes anguish, it's securing a date in the first place.
Former corporate high-flier Paula Rosdol, a London-based American, specialises in helping women in midlife and beyond relaunch themselves onto the dating scene.
''Women do themselves a disfavour by offering to split the cheque,'' she warns. Sex triggers a bonding hormone called oxytocin, she says, and this can play havoc with the female psyche. She is, she says, prepared to use "tough love" when the situation calls for it.